Have girlfriend or boyfriend problems? Share your thoughts. http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php Fri, 20 Nov 2009 13:57:23 -0800 30 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40891 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:30:20 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40891 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40820 Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:05:45 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40820 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40769
When I was twelve (I'm fourteen now), I started hanging out with some guys from a different school, along with other friends as well. I met this kid, we'll say his name is Peter, I met Peter and a bunch of other guys. I didn't know Peter too well, but I knew his friend Nick pretty well. Nick and I decided to go to the movies and set up a whole little date thing. At the time, Nick was going out with my best friend Chandler, so they were the first couple. There was five other boys and girls, myself included. At the time, Peter was coupled with a girl I didn't know too well. They hit it off pretty well, and started dating.
At this time, I was young and stupid, and I thought Peter was hot. So I talked on the phone, MSN, and whatnot with him pretty much every night. Eventually, I stopped. We talked on MSN a lot, but we didn't see each other for a long time. Our conversations on MSN were always the weirdest and really interesting ones I've ever had, and I always had that little school-girl crush on him. One day, last Valentine's Day, me and some friends were throwing an Anti-Valentine's Day party. I invited Peter, and by that time I liked him a lot. Not enough to seperate him from the other crushes on dudes I've had, but enough that I got upset when my two best friends (who knew I liked him) were all over him.
Out of anger, I ended up flirting with another guy at the party. We'll name him Adam. So Adam liked one of the friends who were throwing themselves all over Peter. And I liked Peter. We (Me and Adam) ended up talking with each other, and we got pretty friendly. Nothing above friendliness and flirting happened, though. Later that night, Peter left without saying goodbye, and I ended up playing spin the bottle to get my mind off things. I never kissed anyone before, and I ended up wasting my first kiss on one of the friends who was flirting with Peter. Then later on, I kissed Adam out of anger. The next day Adam and I dated for about four hours, until I felt like an ass, so I broke up with him.
So, after that, I basically went back to talking with Peter on only MSN. I hadn't seen him since the party, and it was middle august when I got a text from him saying he finally found his cell phone. Well, the months from before that and to that point, we had talked on MSN a lot. I didn't really think twice about my school-girl crush on him. I didn't really care, because I had my other mindless crushes. But then Peter and I ended up hanging out with a bunch of my other friends. IT was the first time I had seen him in a while, and as soon as I saw him, the feelings were back. I told the best friend who had flirted with him at the valentine's day party about my crush again, and she tried to set us up. bad mistake. because later on, she was flirting with him again.
well, from that point on, Peter and I got a lot more friendly. We hung out pretty much every other day, but always with other friends. I started telling him secrets, starting with how I was upset with some of my close friends, and he reallly listened to me. And in return, I listened to him. Well, eventually my feelnigs grew beyong my control, but it wasn't the worst yet. One day, after we were done hanging out with friends, we had an extra thirty minutes to kill. That was the first time I ever hung out with Peter alone, and my knees were shaking. My stomach had butterflies. But it was pitch black out, so he couldn't tell. Eventually, the weeks went on. We kept hanging out. I completely opened up to him, told him everything.
He told me everything too. He was basically my best friend, and still is, and the only person I completely trusted. My feeling for him were so fluttery during those last few weeks of summer, and I didn't think about "what if he didn't like me back." It wasn't until a week before school started, my feelings for him were over the top. I broke down, and told him that I liked him. In return, he told me about the girl he likes. I don't know her name, but he said he met her at camp over the summer. They hit it off really well, and afterwards they talked to each other on the phone and internet a lot. Unfortunetly, her parents found out about him, and took away all their contacting ways. He was really depressed, and really upset about that. But he told me, and I was the first person he told.
That was the first time I cried over him, and I cried so hard. He was the first guy I actually cried over, and I never thought it would come to that. I came to terms with my feelings, and knew I didn't just have a silly crush on him. I knew that I wasn't "in love", but I was sure that I did love him. He meant and means the world to me. So once school started, we were forced to only hangout on the weekends. It's three months into school now, and my relationship with him has progressed. I'll share with you the few major details you should know. I've cried over him more than ever, maybe three times a week. I can't even begin to describe the pain of not being able to have him. It's like a never-ending tugging at my heart, and this horrible gut-wrenching, sick, twisted feeling in the pit of my stomach. He constantly takes up my thoughts, and whenever I'm daydreaming/dreaming/drawing/writing, it's always about him.
I don't think I could live a day without some sort of contact with him, and I know I sound obsessive. I can't help it. So, somewhere along these three months: I completely broke down to him, and told him everything. I told him I loved him, I told him how much shit he put me through, how much sometimes I hated him so much. He replied with something that made me smile but cry harder at the same time. He said:
"I don't know if I should tell you this, but if I hadn't met that other girl over the summer, I would have at least asked you out by now."
That was a while ago, and it's safe to say we've gotten closer. I've hung out with him alone, and that's basically how hanging out with him goes now. We hang out alone. He's opened me up to so many things, including letting Jesus back into my heart. When I first met him, I didn't give a shit about that stuff. But he brought me to his youth group, and I began to slowly gain more faith. I've met his parents and siblings, and he's met my entire family. All of my friends keep telling me we make the best couple they've ever seen, but I know that I can't have him. The pain, sometimes it hurts so bad. He's basically my best friend, and I'd do anything for him. I tell him everything and anything.
Except, lately he's been depressed. Of course, I'm always there for him. I keep reminding him that, and I keep telling him he can tell me anything. I don't know what's been going on with him lately, but I haven't seen him in two weeks now. I'm so afraid sometimes, that he's just going to drop me, and not talk to me again for five months or so. When I told him about the fear I had about that, he got angry. He told me "You're the best fucking friend I have." and a bunch of other crap, and I felt like a bitch. I'm so afraid to lose him though, and he worries me more than I can ever explain. I've tried to move on from him, and I keep trying. I want to be able to be his best friend and his closest friend without these stupid fucking feelings always getting in the way. They make me feel vulnrable.
I just don't know anymore. I don't know if I should keep trying to move on, and if I should, I don't know how. I've tried everything, and nothnig seems to work. If I should continue waiting for him, how should I wait for him without feeling the most unbearable, heart-aching, wretched pain I've ever felt in my entire life? God, I love him so much. I really, really need someone. Anyone. Just please.

Here's a few details that seem important:
He's seventeen.
He goes to a different school.
He lives a half hour away.
]]> Mon, 16 Nov 2009 18:59:52 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40769 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40742 with long distance relationships here, so heres my case.....

I met this guy 3 months ago through a friend. We chatted on myspace for a few days, and after we started to talk on the phone i liked him, and he liked me. I finaly met him in person about a month ago. I (think) we both really care about eachother, and ive done everything i can do to keep our long distance love alive. it's actually not that far, its like, proly 45 minits by freeway to where he lives...)

So a few weeks ago he suggested we should "just be freinds" untill I moved closer to him. (wich i am planning on doing anyways to be closer to school and to get out of the geto neighbor-hood im in.) But he doesnt want to call me his girl, he want to see other people. He claims he only want to do that so he has something to hold. I can understand that, ofcourse! But it ripps me apart to think of him being with anyone else but me.

I talked to him 5 days ago and havent called him sense because he was making me upset. He told me he was currently seeing someone else, and that it was a guy, said he was gay, then said he was joking and wasnt gay, but that he really was with a guy. Then he said he was moving to florida, then to utah, then to somewhere in his neiboorhood.
He was joking around so much i couldnt tell if he was lieing or telling the truth, and he shook me up with all of that, so i started to cry. He asked "Are you seriously upset!?" and I answered, "yes! I told you I want feeling good.." and he says really sarcasticly, "oh my god..." and hangs up on me.

I've decided not to call him anymore, and to fallow somethiing he told me, "Either move out here, or get over me."
So I am getting over him, very slowly. The thing is I miss his voice so much, and he always made me feel better when i heard his voice. I'm having trouble putting him behind me. Any advice? (sorry it was a lond read..)
]]> Mon, 16 Nov 2009 00:13:57 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40742 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40686 hanging out (not dating) back in September. When we hang out, there's always chemistry there. In early October, we started holding hands and embracing each other. Despite her recent break up, I felt us getting close. It wasn't until one day that we went to go see a movie and her ex happened to already be sitting behind us. Before the previews started, she began to get quiet and reclusive. She asked to leave, so we did. Ever since then, things got weird. I tried to tell her how I feel and she said "I thought we were just friends." Now, we barely talk. I decided to leave her alone to give her space but... I really don't know what to do now. It's all so confusing

Opinions, suggestions, comments... anything?]]> Sat, 14 Nov 2009 17:42:39 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40686 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40636
i do. i could talk to him all day and still not have enough of him. but lately he hasnt seemed to want to talk to me at all :,( and hes my boyfriend....]]> Fri, 13 Nov 2009 15:46:44 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40636 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40601 Also if she says no for whatever reason it'll be discrace as she's a school year younger than me. She's also alot smaller so it'd be kinda awkward asking her out.
Anyone got any tips, pointers,advice or funny things to say to her to make her like me more.
please hep i see her on monday]]> Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:25:42 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40601 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40582
We arranged to see each other, but on the day, when I arrived at the place we were to be meeting, she wasn't there, instead, her brother and a few of his mates were there, ready to give me a beating. They told me I was set up, and that the whole thing was merely a joke, and then they jumped me.

I got home six hours later, signed into MSN, Facebook and everything else, and found she'd blocked me on each and every one of them, when I tried ringing her number, all I got was an answering machine message of her laughing at me.

What do I do now? because I'm one move from being tipped over the edge.]]> Thu, 12 Nov 2009 05:42:06 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40582 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40569 Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 7 months. I love him, he understands me. But lately it feels we are growing more distant, he dropped out so i only see him every few weekends. His friends tell me that he dates other girls but i refuse to believe them. He always talks about us moving in together next year. He has a past of cheating and lying so i just dont know. We talk less and less and i dont know wether to stay with him or move on. any advice will help. Wed, 11 Nov 2009 16:23:22 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40569 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40549
I've only ever had one relationship. I'm pretty clueless apart from that. I'm not really sexually active, but I do want someone to talk to, but someone made fun of me in the last thread.

So how do I attract a woman to talk to, here or in real life? SERIOUSLY.

Pic is me and my ex.]]> Wed, 11 Nov 2009 07:40:35 -0800 http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40549