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Jan 13 2009, 04:43 PM
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![]() Amor De Rey ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 14-July 08 Posts: 13,449 From: Nuevo México Country: ![]() US State: New Mexico Fav Band: Lamb of God Fav Song: Poe Rilla - King Blood ![]() |
Well first of. If you cut to fit in, or for fun, or for attention. Please by all means cut deeper.
However, if you cut because of shit in your life or whatever. Put down your razor and take a look at yourself and reality. Why yes cutting can be a release for you, stress wise and give you a temporary high. But it's just an idiotic way to deal with things. You can't go on with your life just cutting yourself because shit gets hard. If you could take grasp of your own life. You could probably find hapiness if you TRIED to. Which is so much better than a high. Can't stop cutting? Throw your shit away, and make a damn stand to yourself. Not "I want to quit. But it feels good". But "I'm a human being goddamnit, and I have value for my own life". Because from what I hear. Getting over cutting sounds like nothing compaired to Hard drugs. So quit saying you cannot quit. Because if you give yourself the will power and the respect. You can. Need to find a release? Find something creative and positive, rather than self destructive to do. Music, Friends, Instruments, Art. Things like that. Because people normally cut for the release, if you have nothing really serious you need to release about anymore. Why should you cut? Because being honest here. You may think Cutting is alright now. But in 10 or 20 years. You'll probably regret it for most of your life. I've gone through with my own self destructive behaviour as a release, and I DO regret it. |
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Jan 13 2009, 04:46 PM
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![]() gone. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 24-April 08 Posts: 3,256 From: . Country: ![]() Fav Band: . Fav Song: . |
Haven't I already done this? But, I agree. Right on Nigga.
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Jan 13 2009, 04:49 PM
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![]() Amor De Rey ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 14-July 08 Posts: 13,449 From: Nuevo México Country: ![]() US State: New Mexico Fav Band: Lamb of God Fav Song: Poe Rilla - King Blood ![]() |
Iunno? Did you?
If so, I HASN'T SEEN IT BRO. |
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Jan 13 2009, 04:51 PM
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![]() Whimpering Thundercloud ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 8-January 09 Posts: 145 From: Auckland, New Zealand Country: ![]() Fav Band: Paramore Fav Song: Fall For You - Secondhand Serenade |
It's true.
I tried it and it calmed me down, but when my friends saw they just gave me the most pitying looks I've ever seen on their damn faces. Not worth it at all. |
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Jan 13 2009, 04:52 PM
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![]() gone. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 24-April 08 Posts: 3,256 From: . Country: ![]() Fav Band: . Fav Song: . |
Iunno? Did you? If so, I HASN'T SEEN IT BRO. I did a while back, I had the stuff about how much the mental hospital costs, and what they do, and how the children's department for safety will keep checking on you, and stuff. It was a little while back, like maybe 3-4 months. -------------------- |
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Jan 13 2009, 05:13 PM
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![]() Spiraling Tempest ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 18-December 08 Posts: 212 From: melbourne Country: ![]() Fav Band: End The Affair Fav Song: honey, whats this knife doing in your handbag |
im pretty sure there was a thread on this oready? oh wel... its not worth it really..... all the looks i got.... wat a mistake... |
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Jan 13 2009, 05:28 PM
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![]() Vampiric Angel ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 23-December 08 Posts: 4,854 From: A place? O.o Country: ![]() US State: New Jersey Fav Band: Evanscence. Fav Song: Situations-Escape the Fate |
I cut sometimes, well, mostly my friend cuts me, she has CLAWS. But, I don't really do it for attention. I rarely do it anymore. It never scarred.
Reason for edit: Promoting self harm.
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Jan 13 2009, 05:44 PM
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![]() Forum Boogeyman ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 30-January 08 Posts: 5,166 Country: ![]() Fav Band: Jeff Buckley |
Yes yes, Cutting is bad blah blah blah. How many times are you going to make the same posts about it? Is this to make yourself seem superior? OH I NEVER CUT BEFORE THERFORE I'M SUPERIOR AND CAN DEAL WITH LIFE BLAH BLAH. Enough with this. Yes I disagree with kids cutting over stupid reasons but i hate these type of posts because they just scream pretentious. You want to help? Go find someone who cuts and personally counsel them.
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Jan 13 2009, 07:53 PM
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![]() Amor De Rey ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 14-July 08 Posts: 13,449 From: Nuevo México Country: ![]() US State: New Mexico Fav Band: Lamb of God Fav Song: Poe Rilla - King Blood ![]() |
^ How am I superior? I have done self destructive things in my life, do I claim I am any better than anybody else?
Forgive me for having some compassion for other human beings. But please, with all means. Tell me where I Said I Was superior. I would like to see this. |
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Jan 13 2009, 08:00 PM
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![]() Spiraling Tempest ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 18-December 08 Posts: 212 From: melbourne Country: ![]() Fav Band: End The Affair Fav Song: honey, whats this knife doing in your handbag |
there usually is at least 1 person who jus wants finds sumtin wrong about a thread an trys to make a big deal bout it...
dont like it dont read it.... simple..... |
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Jan 13 2009, 08:06 PM
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![]() Forum Boogeyman ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 30-January 08 Posts: 5,166 Country: ![]() Fav Band: Jeff Buckley |
^ How am I superior? I have done self destructive things in my life, do I claim I am any better than anybody else? Forgive me for having some compassion for other human beings. But please, with all means. Tell me where I Said I Was superior. I would like to see this. How many times are there going to be topics about CUTTERS, GET A REALITY CHECK. Are you under the impression this is going to help anyone? Why not try to help them personally instead of making ANOTHER topic about cutting. We have enough topics as it is. I am pointing out the fact that this is just a rehash of the same topic many others have made before. If this was giving advice to someone, I have no problem with it but it's just another way of saying YEAHHHH I'M BETTER THAN CUTTERSSSSSSSSSSS. Go talk to someone who you know cut and give him or her that advice instead of another topic repeating the same god damn thing. What's the purpose of this topic, I would love to know. |
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Jan 13 2009, 08:36 PM
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Slow motion accident. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 24-May 08 Posts: 8,776 Country: ![]() US State: California Fav Band: Flyleaf Fav Song: Your Hand in Mine - Explosions in the Sky |
You can't stop some one from cutting if they don't want to stop, but nice speech.
Hope people listen. |
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Jan 14 2009, 03:21 AM
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![]() Nigrescent Black Hole ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 10-July 08 Posts: 830 From: Melbourne Country: ![]() Fav Band: Cradle of Filth Fav Song: Burzum-Rundgang um die transzendentale Saule der Singularitat |
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Jan 14 2009, 03:56 AM
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![]() Tortured Rose ![]() ![]() Joined: 23-December 08 Posts: 46 From: i dnt know anymore it looks and feels like hell Country: ![]() Fav Band: my chemical romance Fav Song: cemetary drive- mcr, i am not okay-mcr, never let this go-paramore, rescue me-Hawthorne Heights,hawthorne heights - Ohio is for lovers |
How many times are there going to be topics about CUTTERS, GET A REALITY CHECK. Are you under the impression this is going to help anyone? Why not try to help them personally instead of making ANOTHER topic about cutting. We have enough topics as it is. I am pointing out the fact that this is just a rehash of the same topic many others have made before. If this was giving advice to someone, I have no problem with it but it's just another way of saying YEAHHHH I'M BETTER THAN CUTTERSSSSSSSSSSS. Go talk to someone who you know cut and give him or her that advice instead of another topic repeating the same god damn thing. What's the purpose of this topic, I would love to know. this really bugs me ppl that go on topics just to complain get a life |
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Jan 14 2009, 04:02 AM
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![]() Tortured Rose ![]() ![]() Joined: 23-December 08 Posts: 46 From: i dnt know anymore it looks and feels like hell Country: ![]() Fav Band: my chemical romance Fav Song: cemetary drive- mcr, i am not okay-mcr, never let this go-paramore, rescue me-Hawthorne Heights,hawthorne heights - Ohio is for lovers |
Well first of. If you cut to fit in, or for fun, or for attention. Please by all means cut deeper. However, if you cut because of shit in your life or whatever. Put down your razor and take a look at yourself and reality. Why yes cutting can be a release for you, stress wise and give you a temporary high. But it's just an idiotic way to deal with things. You can't go on with your life just cutting yourself because shit gets hard. If you could take grasp of your own life. You could probably find hapiness if you TRIED to. Which is so much better than a high. Can't stop cutting? Throw your shit away, and make a damn stand to yourself. Not "I want to quit. But it feels good". But "I'm a human being goddamnit, and I have value for my own life". Because from what I hear. Getting over cutting sounds like nothing compaired to Hard drugs. So quit saying you cannot quit. Because if you give yourself the will power and the respect. You can. Need to find a release? Find something creative and positive, rather than self destructive to do. Music, Friends, Instruments, Art. Things like that. Because people normally cut for the release, if you have nothing really serious you need to release about anymore. Why should you cut? Because being honest here. You may think Cutting is alright now. But in 10 or 20 years. You'll probably regret it for most of your life. I've gone through with my own self destructive behaviour as a release, and I DO regret it. well i guess ur right but i cant really say anything cus i cut so ya but i do agree with u i dont do it for attention or anything but te problem is i am not sure i want to stop |
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Jan 14 2009, 04:17 AM
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![]() Tortured Rose ![]() ![]() Joined: 21-December 08 Posts: 37 From: a hole in hell ... Country: ![]() Fav Band: Paramore , Fall Out Boy Fav Song: Let The Flames Begin |
i agree ,, cutting myself is the worst thing i have ever done , i will regret it for the rest of my life
it's now worth it .... |
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Jan 14 2009, 05:27 AM
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![]() Tortured Rose ![]() ![]() Joined: 29-December 08 Posts: 63 Country: ![]() US State: Texas Fav Band: FFTL Fav Song: Annie by Vanessa Carlton |
The suck it up and walk it off approach is quite lacking compassion. It is telling the OP has never cut. I never have either to manage my pain but in the end that is what it is all about. Self destructive behavior is used to manage pain because some of us do not know how to get rid of the pain altogether. In the end you can turn to cutting or chemicals or sex but after the feelings wears off the real problem still remains.
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Jan 14 2009, 12:46 PM
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![]() Spiraling Tempest ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 18-December 08 Posts: 212 From: melbourne Country: ![]() Fav Band: End The Affair Fav Song: honey, whats this knife doing in your handbag |
true that....
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Jan 14 2009, 12:53 PM
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![]() MxFxD ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 22-September 08 Posts: 1,969 Country: ![]() Fav Band: Iron Maiden Fav Song: Flight Of Icarus - Iron Maiden |
UR JUST JELUS COZ UR NUT EMO
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Jan 14 2009, 01:02 PM
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![]() The singer is a crook. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: 3-December 08 Posts: 5,639 From: P-Town. Country: ![]() US State: Virginia Fav Band: Nightwish Fav Song: Atlas - Battles. |
im 3m0.
And yeah... Cutting got me into an insane asylum... xD |
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