Hair:
so you see a haircut you like and decide you want it. You show it to your parents, and they refuse. Heres where you could go from here:
DO NOT:
- Whine
- Scream
- Shout
- Use any of the following in the same sentence 'You don't understand me!'
- cry
-storm off in a huff
- throw a tantrum.
They won't help you get your haircut. They'll only give them another reason not to let you.
DO:
- politely ask why you can't have this haircut. If theres a good reason like, school wont like it, work wont like it, you should probably leave it.
- make a deal; you get better grades/keep your room tidy/whatever, they let you get your haircut.
- Be a good little boy/girl. Help around the house, walk the dog, make tea or whatever you think will get your brownie points with your parents up. In the end they may or may not let you have the haircut you want, in which case you will just have to wait it out.
Don't go do it anyway.
Believe me, they will be pissed.
Piercings:
Firstly , think about it. Hard. For a couple of months. Do you really want to shove a needle through your body and make a permanent mark? Piercings can be taken out but most of them leave at least a small scar.
things to consider:
age:
If you are 12, 13 or younger, get out now. You legally cannot be pierced or tattooed without your parents consent, [although they wont tattoo you anyway whether your mum says yes or no.] plus chances are at this stage its just a fad that will pass. If you're 14 or 15, This is a little better but most studios will not pierce you without your parents consent. If you're 16, with the exception of genital and nipple piercings you can have piercing done (at least in the UK, i think for the US its 18. someone correct me please if I'm wrong) without your parents consent.
Where you want the piercing:
This is one of the most important things in the whole piercing escapade. Where you're going to get pierced may affect everything elses. If you want a lip ring, will you need a retainer for school or work? Things like ear piercing and bellybutton piercing are easier to hide, so work and/or school may not mind too much.
Why you want the piercing:
Ok, Important. Why do you want to shove a ring through your face/body? Are all your friends doing it? Is it the latest trend? To impress someone? If its any of these, you should definately not get a piercing. I mean come on, if all your friends jumped off a cliff, would you jump too just to fit in? If you've decided this for yourself with no pressure, think about it a bit more before you go for it.
ABSOLUTE FUCKING NO NO'S.
- Do not EVER use a fake ID to pretend to be old enough to be pierced. It is definately not unheard of for piercing studios to be shut down because one stupid kid with a fake ID got pierced, their parents found out and told the authorities they were piercing underage kids, even though it wasn't their fault they used a fake ID. Do you want to shut down a business and put someone out of a job?
- any of the things in the haircut section ie scream, whine, tantrums.
Do:
Same as in the haircuts section above this bit.
If you want it that much, you can wait for it. when you're living by yourself, you can do whatever you want.
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What To Do If Your Parents Say 'no'.
Started by
Oblivion.
, Jun 24 2009 10:54 PM
#1
Posted 24 June 2009 - 10:54 PM
#2
Posted 27 June 2009 - 10:14 PM
I'm glad this got pinned. Maybe now all the kids that post pointless threads like "I hate my parents" will understand how to handle problems like adults now instead of how a 3 year old would.
#3
Posted 28 June 2009 - 01:12 PM
Yeah, I had enough of those stupid zomg i haet mah rents they wun let me shove a ring threw mah lip n i wanna look kewl and emoz but i can'tz ima go kill mahself threads. If I see them i'll direct the silly people here and lock the topic. Enoughs enough of whiners.
#4
Posted 28 June 2009 - 03:26 PM
Siren is the best mod ever.
She has more balls than most mods on this site...and she's a woman!
She has more balls than most mods on this site...and she's a woman!
#5
Posted 01 July 2009 - 12:07 PM
Oh noeees imma kill myself.
No just kidding.
Finally - THÉ GUIDELINE for people who are going to kill therselves because their parents say 'no'.
No just kidding.
Finally - THÉ GUIDELINE for people who are going to kill therselves because their parents say 'no'.
#6
Posted 01 July 2009 - 12:14 PM
Yeah, good advice up there
And who gets in a hissyfit over a haircut? HAHAHAHAHA
And who gets in a hissyfit over a haircut? HAHAHAHAHA
#7
Posted 04 July 2009 - 09:57 AM
QUOTE (NotQuiteJesus @ Jul 1 2009, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yeah, good advice up there
And who gets in a hissyfit over a haircut? HAHAHAHAHA
And who gets in a hissyfit over a haircut? HAHAHAHAHA
One of my friends did....
And MAN, was it a tantrum.
It was embarassing, I felt bad for her parents.
#8
Posted 05 July 2009 - 01:24 AM
How to get the piercing/hair you want:
Step 1. Turn 18 and get it done
Step 1. Turn 18 and get it done
#9
Posted 05 July 2009 - 01:36 AM
Just do it & be grounded from the computer so no more whining can happen?
Ooh kae kinda mean..
but seriously wait till your 18 if they say no.
Ooh kae kinda mean..
but seriously wait till your 18 if they say no.
#10
Posted 11 July 2009 - 04:50 AM
Does that mean the haircut rules apply for hairdying?
My mother won't let me dye my hair black but she said lighter was fine.
Anywhoo same rules apply?
My mother won't let me dye my hair black but she said lighter was fine.
Anywhoo same rules apply?
#11
Posted 11 July 2009 - 04:59 AM
^ Yes, same rules apply.
#12
Posted 11 July 2009 - 08:56 PM
QUOTE (Evernight. @ Jul 11 2009, 05:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Does that mean the haircut rules apply for hairdying?
My mother won't let me dye my hair black but she said lighter was fine.
Anywhoo same rules apply?
My mother won't let me dye my hair black but she said lighter was fine.
Anywhoo same rules apply?
dye it 1 shade lighter than black loopholes are the best
#13
Posted 12 July 2009 - 11:27 AM
I want to get my ear done the 2nd time but my mom say no b/cuz i had alot of tobule w/my 1st I see y but I have alwaz wonted it done that & my eyebrow,but that will have to wait....any ideaz?
#14
Posted 12 July 2009 - 11:34 AM
talk to her about it and follow the guidelines at the top of the page.
#15
Posted 12 July 2009 - 12:06 PM
I wnt 2 gt a tatoo of a wlof hawleng @ teh mooon insid a tatto ov a wolf howlang @ teh moonn
haw do i tel mi momm?
haw do i tel mi momm?
#16
Posted 12 July 2009 - 01:49 PM
One shade lighter than black, thats what I have to settle for, you are not alone lol
#17
Posted 12 July 2009 - 11:54 PM
QUOTE (WingedxxRose @ Jul 12 2009, 02:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dye it 1 shade lighter than black loopholes are the best
Yeah I've tried that...but she only allows temporary. Because I'm "so pale"
The problem is...she's going to let me put a lot of colours in my hair.
Maybe she'll make an exception for black over the summer holidays....
#18
Posted 13 July 2009 - 08:31 AM
shit, i agree, i always see these dumbasses bitching about crap like "oh, i want a lip ring, gerard way has a lip ring..." and then they get in a huge-ass hissyfit over a peice of fcking metal in their lip...this has gotta be the most sense written onthe topic yet...
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#19
Posted 13 July 2009 - 02:37 PM
yah those kids that do that get on my nerves...
anyway i didi my hair (by myself) and my mom saw it so now she wont let me be seen in public with her! what do i do?
anyway i didi my hair (by myself) and my mom saw it so now she wont let me be seen in public with her! what do i do?
#20
Posted 13 July 2009 - 09:21 PM
I did the do nots.
You cant tell me what to do
THAT MAKES YOU THE QUEEN OF ALL WHORES.
You cant tell me what to do
THAT MAKES YOU THE QUEEN OF ALL WHORES.
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