[Sphygmos]

I've been debating with myself about my gender for years now. I'm a girl (yes, I am a girl), but I don't really feel like one most of the time. I like feeling pretty, but that's not very often actually. I rarely dress up.
I like fashion, but not in the "omfg i need to buy those shoes, and omg this purse matches it perfectly!" sense. My closet consists of three shirts, two pairs of pants, a skirt, and a sweater, which I've had all of this since I was 14. Even my brother says my closet is quite sad, but I just don't really care. I like what I have, that's it.

I do not have pms. I've had several friends ask me if I ever get my period. There are several female behaviors that I don't have. I'm not saying "FUCK YOU, I don't get hysterical and bitch about things without giving reasons! So don't talk to me now", it's something that other people have noticed about me, and not just me fantasizing about not being a hysterical bitch every now and then. My personality just doesn't match what are said to be the "typical" woman behaviors. Which is why my sex is just completely meaningless, insignificant to me.

If I actually had been born a boy, perhaps it would have been the complete opposite, I might have been much more identified with women rather than with men, or it could be rather similar.

As said before, both sexes have their pros and their cons. I don't believe that one of them is better than the other. Once, one of my friend's grandmother told me "Why can't you be more feminine? Don't be vulgar, be the woman that you are.", I had answered that I just didn't like being a girl, and she said "You know, girls can do something that guys can't, which is the best thing in the world. Do you know what that is?" ... "Wear a skirt?". She then, disappointedly, told me it was being a mother. That hadn't even crossed my mind.

[pon-and-zi-giggles-:o]

Im a girl and nine times outta ten I'm happy and like it. sometimes I wounder what it would be like to be born a guy and although it would never happen it does seem a little easier to be a guy but no I'm not necessarily saying its easier to be one sex rather then the other cause they both have there pors and cons as you guy have already stated. We cant stereo type each sex don't be so quick to judge them -.-

[Kevin Johnson]

O Brave New World, on 10 May 2011 - 01:13 PM, said:

I love being a guy because

- I don't get periods
- I don't give birth
- I don't get things shoved up my vagina (I don't have a vagina, btw)
- I don't have to care about being pretty
- I don't need to shave my body regularly
- I can take my shirt off anywhere
- I am athletic
- I can be a "playa"
- I can masturbate
- I can cook
- I can drive well
- I don't need to worry about breast cancer
- I can play videogames
- I can shave my head
- I can join the military for combat roles

I hate being a guy because

- I have been called a fag
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It must suck being a girl.

XD Guys can get breast cancer BTW. Honestly IDC what gender I am.